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Twin Challenges: Tips To Sail You Through
Caring for one child is daunting enough for many new parents and the prospect of having two at the same time can be a real jolt. Though, watching twins develop is not only double the fun, it’s also double the hard work. There are two to bathe, two to feed, two to burp, two to love, two to play with and two to smile at. So at times it can be Double trouble!!
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Here are a few tips to sail you smooth through the initial years of twin parenting:

• Take help:
With one toddler, works are challenging, but with two, they may be next to impossible when you are alone. Think about and track down your resources, both for childcare and for other household help.

• Gear up:
Right from the day you get the news that you are carrying multiples, start preparing yourself. Get to know the basics of twin parenting. Learn the tips for breastfeeding twins simultaneously.

• Set a routine:
Set routines for the other members of the house. For the newborns, from the minute you arrive home get them on the thought schedule. Feed them at the same time, let them nap at the same time.

• Categorize kids:
Though comparison among twins or with other children is not recommended, but understand their basic nature. If one is a squirm and the other is calmer, you may be tempted to attend to your wailing baby first. However, experts recommend against it. The moment the quite and calm baby understands that he’s missing out on the attention, he’ll change other way. So before you focus on the screamer, make sure your quiet one is happy and settled.

• Take care of yourself:
Though taking regular time-outs might look somewhat different and difficult with toddlers around, but they are important to sail you through. Try taking out a few hours a week where you can spend time for yourself. Read, pamper yourself, shop or simply date your partner. Scheduling time will not only assure the upcoming events, but the thought and preparation will sustain you through the hard time.

• Share the work:
Having twins means that the father has to become more involved in day-to-day babycare. But recognize his priorities for work and earning a living. Don’t play the blame game, with expecting your partner to do everything.

• Prioritise your work:
Relegate and make housework as much automated as you can. Keep chores to a minimum - and don’t feel guilty about it. Your house may be a mess for a while. Figure out what is really important to you. You may focus and clean just a few areas and let the rest be.

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